Destiny...

I've come to a realization.
You create your own destiny.
I've heard this saying over and over again but I never really believed it. But today I have realized that only you are in control of what happens to to you.
If you wake up every morning and think 'This is going to be a bad day' That's exactly what it will be. You will, without knowing, do everything possible to make it a bad day because you want to be right.
It the same as if you wak up every morning and think to yourself 'I'm going to live this day exactly like I would if it were my last day on earth' then everyday is going to be the best day you've ever lived.

Don't ask where this all came from because I have know idea. Lately I've just felt really inciteful and thought I should share it with all my non-existent readers.
This way I may actually be helping you in your life without actually being involved.

I have one more piece of advice for all those people out there who have someone they really care about.
BE YOURSELF.. (thx again Joe :) )
There is no need to change to try and impress someone. If you're talking to this person already chances are good that you didn't start that because you were trying to impress them. You most likely started talking to them because you thought you were a lot alike. Which obviously means you knew who you were when you first started talking to them.
Now here's the advice part.
Look at yourself really closely and see if you still recognize the person before you. If you don't, then you've made the biggest mistake to start a relationship. If you yourself cannot recognize you, then the person you have fallen head over heels for, has either fallen for a pretend person or has realized that you're not comfortabel with yourself. Once that person realizes you're not comfortable with yourself, how do you expect them to be comfortable with you?
I know those of you reading this who actually know me, know exactly where this is coming from. I happen to have made this mistake this summer, but I've also come to realisation. Although a big chunk of my heart will always be wondering what could've happened if I hadn't changed, a good thing came from it.
I learned to wait and I gained a great friend. Most importantly I learned that every one knows what they want. I know right now at this very moment I want to be with this person, whether dating or just friends, I want to be a part of this person's life. And you know what, I'm willing to wait around, but I'm not willing to close my eyes off to the world because although I may think this person is the one for me, I'm only 19 years old. The true one for me could walk past me and I'd never notice if I focused on making a relationship that was never meant to be happen happen. At 19 years old I've never experienced anything in this world so I don't know what it's actually like to feel that someone is the one.

One last piece of information before I post this and start a rather low toned post is this:
Find someone with you're interests not someone who is you.
Although you may love you, you will not love dating someone who is exactly like you. You want someone who is like you but different. That's how you know they are the one.

K..I'm up and out and starting my low toned post :)

L8er dudes and dudettes